On love :(:):

The thing with true love is that nobody can take it away from you.

Not even the one that is being loved.

Mother. Father. Sister. Brother. Wife. Husband. Daughter. Son.

Love is not something that you can feel in a short span of time.

It is like good alcohol. Keeps on getting better with time.

I love you.

These are never said with the right emotion.

Every time you say it, you know there is a next level that you can take your emotion to.

Love can only grow.

You can not suppress it, neither it gets diminished.

It flows. From you to someone. From you to someone else.

You cannot leave someone you love – unless you have moved to someone else for whom you have even stronger emotion of love.

Love yearns for more. It cannot be stopped. Stop trying. Let it grow. It is in your heart. You cannot control it.

It is the most basic emotion; and the most misunderstood.

Motivation Feb 2019

ਬੇ-ਹਿਮੰਤੇ ਨੇ ਜਿਹੜੇ ਬ਼ੇਹ ਕੇ ਸ਼ਿਕਵਾ ਕਰਨ ਮੁਕੱਦਰਾਂ ਦਾ
ਉੱਗਣ ਵਾਲੇ ਉੱਗ ਪੈਂਦੇ ਨੇ ਪਾੜ ਕੇ ਸੀਨਾ ਪਥ੍ਹ੍ਰਾਂ ਦਾ
ਤੇ ਮੰਜਿਲ ਦੇ ਮੱਥੇ ਦੇ ਉੱਤੇ ਤੱਖਤੀ ਲੱਗਦੀ ਉਨਹਾਂ ਦੀ
ਜੇਹ੍ੜੇ ਘਰੋਂ ਬਣਾ ਕੇ ਟੁਰਦੇ ਨਕਸ਼ਾ ਆਪਣੇ ਸਫਰਾਂ ਦਾ

ਬਾਬਾ ਨਜਮੀ

Be-himmate ne jehde beh ke shikwa karan muqaddran da,
Uggan waale ugg painde ne seena paarh ke pathraan da,
Manzil de mathhe de utte takhhti unhan di,
Jehde gharon bana ke turde naksha aapne safraan da.

Baba Nazmi

Seven things for a happy life

There are people who know what they are doing in life, and the direction in which they are doing.

There are others who have not found the right direction or the passion to do something, not just yet.

If you do not have anything in particular to focus on, then following steps could help boost up the energy and might help find the passion in life as well – but will keep you happy either way:

  1. Become competitive (if not already)
  2. Finish things (don’t let them hanging – books, assignments, projects, chores)
  3. Ensure your super close circle is better than you(in whatever way you want to improve)
  4. Never let the mind rest
  5. Make sure other credible(successful) people give you credibility
  6. Learn more
  7. Obsess

Starting over, yet again

Time has passed. A significant amount.

I will be 35 in a few months. It’s already been more than 1800 weeks since I have been around, and (in the best case scenario) I would be around for another 1800.

While a significant time was spent on knowing, growing, learning and doing a lot of crazy things, and in doing so I have tried to hit the “reset” button a few times, and it did work – to a certain extent.

The time for another reboot is here.

New targets, new challenges, new beliefs.

This is probably the last reboot that I can do in this life at a point where I still have significant control over the actions that I can take and still be in a position to enjoy the benefits as I plan and intend.

I am investing next 8 years, to get the ROI for the following 30 or so.

Target = Retirement from fear and worries of life (and “the life itself”).